2011 Fashion Trend Watch

2011 Fashion Trend Watch

Let's talk about..strange things that can happen on a first date

Well..it ever happened you to be frustrated by some of the things your man does? The part where  he’s probably frustrated by some of your behavior, too,will leave it for another column. But about why guys do the strange things they do when they’re dating, like:

• Not calling after a great date. Have you ever had what you thought was a great date with a guy and he says he’ll call but he never does. Strange, huh? Not to the guy. He didn’t call because he wasn’t interested, but he just didn’t have the heart to tell you that because he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. It sucks, yes, but it’s the truth. 

Or maybe, if you wanna be positive about it, maybe he does really like you, but he’s playing you around. He let’s you boil under hot pressure, wondering over and over again what did you do wrong. And eventually, after a few days, he decides to eventually give you a sign, obviously posing in a detached person.

•   Canceling on you at the last minute. There are some really good excuses for canceling a date, but most of the time if a guy cancels a planned date it’s because something better came up. It’s brutal, but it’s the truth. Here’s how you can tell if what he’s saying is true - if he says he’s sick, offer to bring him chicken soup and nurse him back to health. If he refuses, it’s most likely because at a certain hour, he’s going to be out on the town with his boys or (gasp), out with another girl.

•   Making you think you’re crazy. Sure, you just saw him checking out another woman right in front of you with your own two eyes, but when you confront him, he asks like he has no idea what you’re talking about. Or how about a of mine who went to a strip club with his girlfriend and let another stripper hug him all night right in front of his girl and then proceeded to say he didn’t know the stripper was hugging him. Is that a classic guy lie or what?

No, you’re not crazy. Some men just really think they can run this kind of game on women and unfortunately, a lot of women buy into it.
How about we try to put ourselves in their shoes, and do the same things? I would suggest beginning with spending a night over his place, on the first dates whatsoever, and leave his place after having a good game of sex, like in the porn videos, letting him wonder what happened with all the cuddling and kissing afterwards.

Sexual attraction - you have that “something”?

Sex makes the world go round. But do you have that “je ne sais quoi”?

In anthropological terminology, that “something” is described by the word “hand”, more exactly, the sum of the positive human characteristics. This is so crazy that it gets both people of the opposite sex and also of the same-sex.


Can be called charisma - something that a person has and causes intense emotions in another person.
The trick is actually in the term itself. That “something” is very difficult to summarize in one word, as it is, after all, the sexual energy that a person sees another person.


In Hollywood, celebrities considered sex symbols were defined as women with “that thing”. Something that can not be described in words, but in can be viewed on their figure.

Je ne sais quoi - love and “hand”
The most important thing about that “je ne sais quoi” is that if you do not have it, you just do not have it. It can’t be learned. You are born with it. Either you have the “hand” or not. Of course, depends on taste, one can be sexually attractive or unattractive for another person.


We refer to sexual energy can be felt just by looking at a person. It makes you tingle and can lead to bliss only with a light touch. Perhaps by the dissolution of a button shirt or skirt arrangement. It draws you to this person. Every detail. He is a made for your body, a person who gives wild sexual emotions.
Do not get this wrong, is not the same thing as being in love, you only have a sense of wild passion, you feel an insatiable desire for sex. Only the thought of such a person is enough to lose your head, to your knees tremble and you give in to his/her sexual irresistible charisma.


Je ne sais quoi - can be good or bad
If you find a person that you are sexually attracted to, you’re in heaven. Especially if you conquer the heart too. Otherwise, you can catch a vicious circle that is destroyed by the obsession and desire for something you can not have. Ideally, desire and love are linked and compatible. But if things are different and find that “something” the wrong person, you go through hell. Maybe it’s a married person, or maybe you’re married or there isn’t any chance for a serious relationship.
Stay with just “hand” wild sexual desire, insatiable fatal and that will confuse and destroy you.


If she or he has that “something” stop thinking
It is believed that each person is destined to find their someone’s desire to “fool” him at least once in their life. If you find such a person at the right time, your life will be like a story. Sex will be great, passionate, wild and spontaneous, and you literally will burn the bed, having sex like in those porn movies. If you find such a person, not thought about any reason you could stand between you, in the way of a promising relationship.
Allow yourself to dream and to enjoy the attraction you feel for made for you person.

tips..about relationships

first of all..
Most likely, you will not know the first soul mate
When you meet someone for the first time that you come to think of your soul pair, look – there will be about confetti, will not turn on lights, marching band will not play, will not be special signs to announce your big event. You will realize just in time, by a slight
prejudice mind that you can perceive at a time. Therefore, instead of looking for magical and sublime signs of matches, seeking that increased rate of heart beats and trying to build a friendly clean, without expecting more. Over time, as the relationship will flourish, when both will say you have true feelings for each other, then you know.
Relationships rarely show-as we see in movies or in books
Characters imagined by writers and directors are often ideal pair, who fall in love with the place go through some moments more or less credible and which are close to nothing, and a remain to finally live happily ever after. Possibly on some sunny island. Well,
mature people really fall in love slowly and live fully the relationship only after they confess love and begin to develop their mutual feelings.
It takes years to really get to know someone
Gift we receive as our people is the complexity. Or, for some, it is curse of nature to man. You may know someone in a week, a month after several meetings? Can you show your full complexity of nature to your whole life, the joys and pains that you have
accompanied at that time, in a short time? How long do you think would be someone for you really know?
Relationships of quality-made it worthwhile for them!
Nothing is greatest than being part of a quality relationship. Nothing like the feeling of being best known for his beloved, to rely on your partner, to be everything to each other. Any need to do to reach such a relationship, do not hesitate.
You can have a great relationship only when you don’t need one
You will be able to attract your true match when life is so wonderful that to have a relationship is not your primarily goal to ensure your happiness. Warning! Do not confuse this provision trying to force yourself not to think of one relationship or force yourself to forget completely the need for a relationships because of disappointment in them.
In a relationship there is boredom. They can be nervous, resentful, interruption, but never boredom.
How to get bored with your partner when your needs are met when, communication is excellent, when you feel loved and you love in return? Could you ever get bored of it? People think of boredom as to an accumulated amount of unspoken things, resentment, the nerves that “squeeze” the relationship.
If you like to have sex with a person and does not mean that you can have as good a relationship
together
However, to like to be with a person with whom you have a romantic relationship in addition, involves the several times that sex with this person is nice. What should you do when you know anyone? Trying to get him like to you, or getting him into bed immediately, and having sex like in those porn movies?

Opposites attract - curiosity or completion?

The old concept and expression "opposites attract" has existed for centuries. And it seems to be very

applicable when it comes to love & relationships.

Research has shown that people are usually attracted to their opposite gender on a scale of extraverted / introversion and judgement / perceiving.

We are naturally attracted to people who are different from ourselves - and therefore somewhat exciting.

But really how far we are willing to go in this exciting journey to an unknown? Is curiosity a way to  excuse our "unfounded" attractions?

But it's not just the exciting differences which attract us to our opposites, it is also a natural looking, if not primitive, for completeness. We are naturally attracted to individuals who have strengths that we are missing.

When two opposites work as a couple, they become a better functioning rounded unit.  A good example of this may be the two fundamental concepts in Chinese philosophy and culture, yin and yang.  Yin literally translates as "the dark, slope (hill) north bank (river) south, cloudy, gloomy. Is the dark element: it is sad, passive, sober, feminine, introverted, intimate, and corresponds to the night. Yang means "sunny place, slope (hill) southern bank (river) north, sun shine." The light element, is happy, full of vitality, active, bright, masculine, and corresponds to the day. Yin is often symbolized by water and earth, while Yang is symbolized by fire and wind.

There is also the theory that our natural attraction to the opposite is a way for our subconscious to force us to deal with matters of our own worst natures. Being very attracted to our opposites, two opposites involved in an intimate relationship have significant issues and communication barriers to overcome. So in a sense, our attraction to the opposite personality can be seen as our subconscious mind that leads us to become a complete individual, causing us to deal with areas that are most difficult to tackle for us.

Not the same can be said for other types of relationships. When it comes to work, colleagues, or friends, we are especially interested in having to deal with people who are very different from ourselves.

We seem to feel most comfortable with people who have similar interests and perspectives, and we show a special motivation or patience to relate to our opposites.

It's like watching free movies without knowing you are playing in too, different ways to approach the same issue, having a relationship, not only based on sex, but searching for the missing exciting pieces to fill the "set".

Relationships - filling the missing piece or adding value to what it already is?

 When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.

The story of the missing piece is timeless and simple.  A soul that has been created and fit for life in a particular way awakes one day dissatisfied, dissatisfied and sad.  Something is wrong.  Something is askew.  Something is missing. 

The things of God’s kingdom are love and equity, the equity that says there is enough; enough food, enough shelter, enough dignity, enough hope for everyone.  What will fill you up, what will serve to be your missing piece now found, is the gift of a relationship with God and with yourself, a relationship that based on love and made perfect by God’s love; a relationship that results in you and me being so filled that we have love to share and can show the world all of the good things God has always intended, all of the good things, God has in store. 

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But how many of us are actually really pleased with ourselves? 

It's all about the importance of developing your individuality before getting into a relationship, not sacrificing yourself in order to get into a relationship, and then maintaining that individuality while in the relationship.