Let's talk about..strange things that can happen on a first date

Well..it ever happened you to be frustrated by some of the things your man does? The part where  he’s probably frustrated by some of your behavior, too,will leave it for another column. But about why guys do the strange things they do when they’re dating, like:

• Not calling after a great date. Have you ever had what you thought was a great date with a guy and he says he’ll call but he never does. Strange, huh? Not to the guy. He didn’t call because he wasn’t interested, but he just didn’t have the heart to tell you that because he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. It sucks, yes, but it’s the truth. 

Or maybe, if you wanna be positive about it, maybe he does really like you, but he’s playing you around. He let’s you boil under hot pressure, wondering over and over again what did you do wrong. And eventually, after a few days, he decides to eventually give you a sign, obviously posing in a detached person.

•   Canceling on you at the last minute. There are some really good excuses for canceling a date, but most of the time if a guy cancels a planned date it’s because something better came up. It’s brutal, but it’s the truth. Here’s how you can tell if what he’s saying is true - if he says he’s sick, offer to bring him chicken soup and nurse him back to health. If he refuses, it’s most likely because at a certain hour, he’s going to be out on the town with his boys or (gasp), out with another girl.

•   Making you think you’re crazy. Sure, you just saw him checking out another woman right in front of you with your own two eyes, but when you confront him, he asks like he has no idea what you’re talking about. Or how about a of mine who went to a strip club with his girlfriend and let another stripper hug him all night right in front of his girl and then proceeded to say he didn’t know the stripper was hugging him. Is that a classic guy lie or what?

No, you’re not crazy. Some men just really think they can run this kind of game on women and unfortunately, a lot of women buy into it.
How about we try to put ourselves in their shoes, and do the same things? I would suggest beginning with spending a night over his place, on the first dates whatsoever, and leave his place after having a good game of sex, like in the porn videos, letting him wonder what happened with all the cuddling and kissing afterwards.